I told 1 lie she told many?

throughout the relationship she told me many lies & said they were little white lies.most concerned a friend of hers she said was once after her.she didnt want me to have female friends so i didnt want her to have male friends.i gave her everything in 18mths & offered more.she kept telling me lies.her ex friend cropped up everytime we split up.we split up every 3wks & her excuses to split were crap.i love her & was very loyal.1 of last times we split up i texed a female friend 23 times.there was nothing in those text just chat.when i got back with my girl i told her not to text me.she didnt but did wish me happy new yr a mth later.my girl found phone bill & hit roof that i text her a mth b4.she had phone call of her male friend new yrs eve wishing happy new yr.she said that was ok but it wasant when i had text new yr because she didnt know who girl was. now she